The Tables

Of course, you have to have table setups. Because of the red being accentual, I would prefer ivory table cloths, with things on the table taking the rest of the palate. The tables will be dependant on where the reception is held, so I have no control at this point over the shape, however I can plan for either way.

The cake table should be the most stylized, as it serves as the center for the attention. Knowing my family guests will probably be ready for cake as soon as they see it. I would like for there to be ruffles in the cloth, with red accents of roses tied to hold up the edges and lace underneath. Of course, the lace isn't a requirement and may be a bit too much for the modernization type, so I may go with a red underskirt instead.

Ivory tablecloths (not pink) are prefered, however this picture caught my attention with the edge of the tables having the ropes and ruffles. The chairs could have beautiful red bows on the back with ruffles of white and red, really bringing together the look with the centerpiece of flowers.

It's quite hard to find a napkin I like, though I know I would prefer red napkins with ivory bows. No crystals or little rhinestones. I find those things to be gaudy.

Champagne flutes are the easiest part. Little red bows and maybe some small markers for guests. The toasting glasses will be the only ones tied, with a white lace rather than black.

If done correctly the entire dining room will be bright, and feel welcoming. Red as the main color would be too rich, and make things feel crowded or dark. My guests should feel welcomed to the reception, not overpowered by strong color or be reminded of Valentines.